What are the safe gay clubs in bangkok?

we will be in bangkok feb 13 to feb 16 2010 and don't want to miss the night entertainment of gay bangkok? we'd like to experience particularly thai macho dancers with hunky bodies and is it safe to hire hunk male prostitute from bangkok? i mean aside from the healthy risks involved in having with them, are they trustworthy and don't har foreign customers? where can we find the safest place to experience hot thai hunk men without having to go through any troubles?